you must try to become the person you would like to spend the rest of your life with

set goals

make contact

ask questions

volunteer time

constrain yourself

step back

embrace change

challenge yourself

speak up

create moments

take pictures

delegate responsibility

stand out

look up

be patient

carpe diem

change focus

have purpose

don’t blame

make promises

practice discretion

be sincere

read books

say no

be romantic

why not?

act now

show affection

know happiness

write something

share laughter

be approachable

eliminate nonessentials

don’t slouch

keep healthy

act naturally

breed confidence

be humble

slow down

be persistent

treat yourself

create precedents

wake early

update resume

simplify things

be honest

plan vacation

say thanks

set example

ask why

know yourself

no regrets

deserve happiness

write letters

be charitable

produce quality

be curious

be interesting

work out

be proactive

give credit

learn efficiently

assure yourself

be assertive

make associations

don’t quit

surf smart

work hard

keep calm

plan ahead

don’t worry

think positive

call someone

take initiative

experience nature

look forward

actively listen

be brave

rock out

educate yourself

find time

make opportunities

mentor someone

be decisive